Thursday, January 10, 2008

Life goes on...


Yesterday was a crazy, crazy day. It was the first day of classes and the last day of Jordy's trip. He was here visiting for 13 days- I am sure it will seem like a dream for him because he returned to snowy, cold Utah. His last days here were so hot and sunny. It was so nice to have him come- but good for him to leave. No offense Jordy, but you wore me out!! We crammed all of what took me nearly a year of living in Hawaii into a short two weeks. WOW, I tell you what, wow!
I haven't been able to write about all of our adventures but I will try to write more as stories pop in my head. For now my head is cluttered with questions about what's next. I am glad I am going to have a really fun semester- I am excited about all of my classes (I better hold my tongue - I still have one I haven't been to yet). I am taking Tesol and Linguistics classes and Japanese Lit.
I just want to thank you all for your emails and love- I am really feeling it even across the miles. It is going to take sometime to get over what happened. A bishop once told me that it is like grieving the death of someone- when you share so much of your life with a person and you love them and then lose them you have to give yourself time to recover.
The girls and I are also going to have a drinking party this weekend. We are going to get IBC sodas and for every swig we are going to say something we dislike about men in general or specific guys and we are going to play angry girl music and when everyone is asleep we are going to have bathtime fun.... (more about that later)

2 comments:

ilikewinter said...

Bathtime fun... huh...

You probably don't like R&B, but when D and I broke up before we were engaged, I listened to Beyonce's "In a Minute" or something like that. The word's are SO very good. It'll make you feel proud of yourself. And I think it pretty much pertains to your situation.

Also, Cat Power- she's an angry little girl. Known for biting men's heads off in her songs.

I wish I was there commiserating with you all. I have it good now, but believe me, I've been down that road. Lame-O jerk. I wish I had one minute to give him a piece of my mind.

Speaking of, have you been able to?

Anonymous said...

"Irreplacable" by Beyonce is awesome. I love to sing along and point my finger "to the left, to the left" Anyway, I also like "No man's Woman" by Sinead O'connor and "You oughta know" by Alanis M., It is a bit graphic, but very angry and good. Anyway, you should be happy he did this now and not a few years into marriage. He's a player for sure and I feel sorry for "the woman of his dreams"